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Sunday, April 4, 2010

The true meaning of friends

I can not feel the beauty of life through the glitter of the world, or the beauty of night life. I could not feel the real beauty of life with through how many friends I have. I doubt someone or even some people who've told me, that real life is beautiful if we have a lot of friends. Hmmm .... my question now is, how kind of friend?
It is nice when we have lots of friends, while happy, why not?. But if in trouble or shortage, not all can really care. I speak from an experience, and I admit it. Especially when talking about the ugliness of a friend from another friend ... I think this is not what makes life beautiful. Is not that right? However not all like that, and unfortunately... many are like that.
Therefore, I want to make a conclusion, that in fact, a friend is someone who lives very close to us, this could be sisters, brothers, husbands, wives, children and even our mother or father. We do not have to have friends who are not blood relatives with our flesh. Because even our families can feel more sorrow or sadness we feel. They prefer to feel the sense of a nexus. They could consider us the enemy, like other people also assume we are the enemy. But the hostility in the family can still be united, without being harmed. Is not the function of a friend is the same with your family?
Now I realize, that in fact my best friend is my husband, my daughter, the patients who I visited every day. I could talk, complaining, feeling the excitement and even cried together. I feel real life. I found my friends. I can enjoy the glitter of the night with my husband, shopping with my daughter, joking with them, argue with them, occasionally I meet my old friends. I know how I divide my time with them, but most importantly, is the tranquility of my family. I've learned from someone who is kind, which until now has become a guideline in my life, that we should be able to distinguish which is more important for this life ... and I'm very grateful..

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Ulang tahun Suami sekaligus selamatan rumah baru kami





Pada acara Ulang Tahun suami, dan sekaligus merayakan pernikahan kami yang sederhana, saya membuat Nasi Tumpeng kreasi sendiri. Nggak saya sangka ternyata berhasil juga. Yach...apapun yang kita mau pasti ada jalan untuk membuatnya terwujud. Itulah prinsip yang selalu ada dalam hidup saya. Walaupun ini bukan hal yang sangat besar untuk bisa dibanggakan, namun ini adalah suatu kreasi yang tak semua orang bisa menciptakannya. Saya bangga atas diri saya sendiri. Hmmm....kadang-kadang saya berpikir, kenapa saya tidak hidup di negara sendiri, di Indonesia dimana bisnis dan usaha kuliner sangat mudah didirikan, asal ada modal...semua pasti bisa.
Alhamdulillah para tamu-tamu memuji keindahan Nasi Tumpeng saya. Bahkan fotonyapun sempat saya sharing ke Facebook. Ini adalah suatu pengalaman yang sangat berharga dihidup saya, dalam mengembangkan bakat masak-memasak membuat kepercayaan diri semakin bertambah. Itulah dunia saya, dunia yang dipenuhi dengan kecintaan dibidang kuliner, kecintaan memanjakan keluarga dengan hidangan-hidangan nikmat setiap hari. Saya sebagai wanita karier sekaligus ibu rumah tangga berusaha sebisa mungkin menciptakan keharmonisan dalam keluarga dengan memberikan apa yang terbaik bagi mereka, dan salah satunya adalah menciptakan hidangan yang bervariasi setiap hari, setiap saat.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Dear Daughter

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